Being in a relationship is not an easy task. It requires a lot of effort and sacrifices from both of the partners. It is not as rosy as it is depicted in movies. It is all about hard work but at the end of the day, it’s all worth it.
Nothing hurts quite like when people mock or question a person who’s so in love with his/her partner. Here is a list of 7 things that one should never say to someone who’s always in a relationship.
- You Guys Must Be Very Comfortable:
This is something that people say in a very negative sense. I don’t know why people think that being comfortable with someone in a relationship is being equivalent to not love someone enough to make an effort.
I, personally think that being comfortable is awesome.it means that I don’t have to wake an hour before him to put on some “natural” makeup to convince him that I woke up just like that.
- You Definitely Fantasize About Other Guys, Right!
I personally hate this one. Being in a relationship with someone since forever, people automatically assume that I’m some sex-starved person who is gonna pounce on any available guy.
Well, that’s not true. I’m human and I think that Henry Cavil is the hottest human on earth but I’m not going to leave my boyfriend for him (well it’s slightly debatable).
- You Guys Must Get Bored Sometimes
As I’ve mentioned above, being comfortable is not equivalent to being bored. A relationship has its highs and lows. It cannot always be exciting but that doesn’t mean that the absence of it causes boredom.
- You Don’t Know What You Are Missing Out On
The entitlement of people saying stuff like this is astonishing. Maybe I do want to miss out on things.
People need to realize that not everyone wants to have one night stands or experience a hundred different dates a week.
- How Do You Spice Things Up?
Ah! The most famous question. Yes, we hire Croydon escorts to spice things up, if you know what I mean..(Cue Sarcasm)
The thing is that when you love a person truly then things are already spicy enough that you don’t NEED to add spice. And people who advise such things to happy couples are obviously tone-deaf.
- At Least Hook Up With Someone So You Can Compare Him With
This is the stupidest thing ever. People should stop giving this advice because sometimes it can play a part in destroying a relationship.
- Monogamy! Whew, Can’t Even Relate
The worse thing that people assume about a person who is in a committed relationship that they must miss all that excitement of having a polygamous relationship.
Just like monogamy is not appealing to everyone, the same is the case with polygamy. Moreover, when you find someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life than issues like these become a trivial thing.